I consider myself a good driver. I feel like I can anticipate other drivers. And we keep enough space between sidewalks and cars, that there are not a lot of other distractions on the roads. But driving in Amsterdam is not the same. It is more stressful and requires a lot more thinking.
1) Manual Transmissions - While not a problem by themselves, when learning to drive with other new distractions, a manual transmission makes it just a little more difficult. Jaimee and I grew up and learned on a stick shift, so it's really not that big a deal. And the roads are all flat here, so there are no tricky hills where taking off is difficult.
2) Roads are Skinny - Driving down the residential roads in Kaysville, the roads are very wide. I think you literally can turn an if cart around on those roads. Even on normal residential roads in the states, there is always plenty of room for two vehicles to pass each other while a car is parked on the side. Our road where our house is is skinny enough for one car to park and one to pass only if the parked car is all the way to the side. We have also seen two way roads with only one lane. You drive down the middle and you pull off to the side when another car comes. Granted that is more out in the country, but even in the city, there are one lane roads with bike paths on both sides. And the traffic is both ways.
3) One Way Roads - One way roads are everywhere. I have to drive with the GPS even when I know where my destination is, because I haven't figured out which roads go the direction I want. I guess so many one way roads are good though since the roads are all skinny.
4) Bicycles Everywhere - If there is ever a bike/car accident, it is always the cars fault. There are bike lines that boarder almost every road. Some are divided from the road, but many are a part of the road. Sometimes a biker will pass another biker by going out into the road, in front of vehicle, and almost getting hit. At roundabouts, bikers have the right of way and are not always coming from the left. When making a right turn, our always have to watch for a biker coming up along the path. And then there are those crazy families with five kids where the kids are darting around here and there and everywhere and the parents seem to have no control.
5) Parked Cars - Because all the houses are closer together and the roads are so small, there is parallel parking everywhere. This means that you will be driving along these tiny roads an either a car will pull out from a parking spot, or a car will stop and reverse into a parking spot. This also means that I need to freshen up my parallel parking skills. I have not parked like this in quite some time. Additionally, you have to pay for parking everywhere. There is paid parking even in the residential roads by my house. We have a driveway and a garage, so it is not a problem at home.
6) Pedestrians - With the roads so small, the sidewalks are also very close to the roads. At any point, someone can step out from in front o a car and step straight into the road. They are also everywhere, walking around like they own the place, with their five kids. Pedestrians also have the right of way. And at a crosswalk it is expected that the car will stop for the pedestrians. There are also a lot more elderly people out and about here, and when they cross the road, it takes them forever.
7) Trams/buses/subway lines - If all that wasn't enough, there are tram lines, and buses everywhere. And then there are also subway lines that are not subways furthered out, but metro lines. It's just an extra distraction when turning left.
But these distractions and nuisances are all worth it as long as you are going on a trip of about 20 minutes or more. Jac's and Ryan's school is about 15 minutes away by car. Jac can make it in 12 on her bike. My work is 10 minutes by car. I can do it in 5 by bike. The hardware store is 10 by car, 5 by bike. Dominoes is 7 by car, 4 by bike. And then you still have to deal with parking. But getting to church has gone from 1 hour to 16 minutes. Going to our friends house in Amsterdam has gone from 40 to 15.
All this to say, I am very happy we have a car. But we can live with just one.